What is middle school dating
And although we already know that junior high school dating was a major drama-fest that certainly distracted from our studies (the number of times I comforted a crying friend in the girls' bathroom during class!) those of us whose 14-year-old milkshakes didn't bring the boys to the yard may be the better for it, according to a new study out of the University of Georgia.
Researchers also speculate that the subsequent in-class weirdness following a breakup lends itself to poor academics.Middle school dating is weird, awkward and cringe-worthy. Through those awkward times, we learn how to get used to being with a person for an extended period of time.I'm not saying that we should encourage all fifth-graders to date, but I wouldn't discourage it either.When I graduated from middle school, I moved up to high school. However, it still seemed up until my sophomore year that my relationships weren't taken seriously. It's not that my family didn't believe in young love, it was just that I didn't seem to believe in it myself. Too preoccupied with getting high marks and making my way to college. By no means, am I saying that Hector has been trouble, but I don't think I would have been in a long-term relationship with anyone else. After about six months, I kept saying, 'I think I'm too invested this time.' Upon hearing this, my nonna groaned and said, 'Don't say that! I knew that what we had wasn't some temporary fling. It is a peak time of physical growth for boys and girls. Their appearance begins to be important to them so they brush their teeth and shower more. These physical changes often drive behavior, especially when it comes to their burgeoning sexuality—so figuring out when and how to respond is like a high-wire act for parents. They respond more strongly to social rewards like a friend’s approval or disapproval.
One reason that adolescence is such a complicated time is because the brain is still changing. And most teens overwhelmingly prefer the company of their friends over their parents.
UGA's research, drawn from following a group of 624 students over a seven-year period from sixth to 12th grade, found that kids who began dating in middle school had worse study skills, were four times more likely to drop out of school and reported twice as much alcohol, tobacco and weed use than their single counterparts.
Of the kids studied, 38 percent reported dating at each point of the survey, and 22 percent at "high middle school." Rather amazingly, 100 percent of these kids were dating in sixth grade. That's why it's amazing.)At each point in time, teachers rated the students who were dating as worse academically than those who weren't.
I was not only a participant but a witness to this madness.
I watched friends and acquaintances declare their love for one another and the next day act as if nothing happened.
When I was in middle school, it seemed like everyone around me was in a relationship.