Dating someone chronic illness
An immediate connection was sparked across his kitchen counter that was special—and sexy.He ended up not wanting to do long distance, but that night was my first glimpse of the power of leading with vulnerability.
This was not at all what I expected him to say, and it couldn't have been an easy thing to tell me.So there we were, both having revealed really private but pivotal parts of ourselves within the first five minutes.And in this vulnerable moment, he shifted from the class clown I had remembered in high school into a very real person who had also gone through his fair share of suffering and shame.On more ordinary days, she experiences stomach issues and a chronic cough, among other non-terminal-but-annoying symptoms caused by medicines that suppress her illnesses.According to a report published by the National Health Council, nearly half of Americans have at least one chronic illness, with that number expected to grow in coming years.She advised that if something feels too big to share then you may want to consider postponing dating until after you've dealt with it.
Lyme disease is a big part of my life right now: It's why I moved across the country, it's why I don't have a job right now, it's why I'm in bed half the day. I'm not willing to postpone dating until my late thirties.
And the fastest way to love and connection is to show the other person who you are right now, in this imperfect moment.
“Don’t even tempt me.”That was Ashley Pierce’s response when her friend Tammi tried to set her up with Walter.
But I felt the conversation only coasting along at a superficial level, and my interest in him was waning.
So I decided, as an experiment, to "lead with vulnerability" and tell him what I usually avoid discussing until I know someone better.
Sometimes dating is a great way to get me out of my head and out of bed, even when the latter seems impossible or undesirable at best.