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All I want is to quietly solve the problem by myself. So with all that in mind, you could sum it up by saying: I want her to give me space and I want her to be OK while she’s giving me space.

and abandon any perspective or pursuit that has you feeling crappy in your moment-to-moment experience in service of some imagined better future.In another sense, you already have a relationship with him… So, to answer your questions about what to do and if you can get him back… It is counter-intuitive, but when women fixate on a guy (and worse, a specific outcome with a guy), they are destroying their mood and ability to be attractive.When you take on the perspective of, “I need this guy to be this specific way with me…At the heart of it, it’s the feeling of fear of loss.When you believe that you could lose something, you’ll instinctively shrink inside and it will take the wind out of your sails.and every moment you’re unhappy you push the guy further and further away.

When you let go of the idea that you need things to work out a certain way, then you cut off that poisonous negative cycle.

He said he worships the ground I walk on and should never change because I was perfect in the relationship and will go far in life whereas he feels like he has nothing to offer since he is grieving and stuck in a job he doesn’t like. I was dating a woman who really was a great girlfriend, but I was totally not in the right place to be in a relationship. when men don’t feel like they’re “winning” at life or that life is good, they want to shrink away and withdraw from the world.

He suggested we stay friends but I told him that would be too hard on me and he said I can contact him anytime. Men want to mentally work out whatever is bothering them, solve it, and then they’ll re-emerge, ready to conquer the world.

or else I won’t be happy,” then you set yourself up for tremendous unhappiness.

You see, that style of thinking is completely backwards and it will drive the guy away. Well, it’s simple: Men are attracted to women who are happy (not feeling like they are unhappy unless they “get” specifically what it is that they want).

My ex broke up with me last month after being together for over a year.