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Anecdotally, Harvard women are also less impressed by Harvard men.

A team of researchers asked male undergraduate students to take an intelligence test before meeting up with female participants who either performed better or worse than they did on the test.If enough people said “screw it” and gave it a shot, maybe—just maybe—everything will change.Upon reflection, asking your section crush out to coffee might not be so bad after all.These days, it’s a sin to appear too interested, to double text if the other person doesn’t text back first, to be too honest, or to not consult a small army of friends before making the “next move.” In order for sparks to fly, there has to be a connection first.Dating only improves with practice, and practice only comes when you put yourself out there.In my opinion, the best approach here is to stay open-minded and optimistic.

After all, the fact that few people are dating means that there’s a surplus of eligible bachelors and bachelorettes on campus.

But, for the more mathematically inclined out there, we find ourselves with a handy equation: Lots of judgment plus (subpar) hookup culture plus shortage of free time plus fear of rejection plus inexperience plus overinflated egos equals nonexistent dating scene. I recognize the inherent irony in telling possibly the most Type-A people in the entire world to lighten up a bit. Most students got into Harvard by taking themselves very, very seriously.

But at the same time, an inflated sense of self is exactly what prevents us from opening our lives up to another person.

Swiping right on a lighted screen is significantly easier than putting in the work for a relationship, and the value of sex—facilitated by the use of apps such as Tinder, Grindr, Bumble, and Hinge—has been lowered considerably. Attitudes about hooking up have evolved from a strict cultural taboo on premarital sex, to a monthlong courtship before a first kiss, to drunken hookups facilitated by sweaty dorm parties and desperation, to its most evolved form to date: those oh-so-eloquent “Netflix and chill? And although there are no official statistics on how often the rest are hooking up, long nights spent doing problem sets in libraries seem to be far more common than long nights spent doing each other.

Maybe it’s because people just don’t have enough time.

Here’s the main culprit: Harvard kids tend to do things they’re good at and drop things they’re bad at.